WEBVTT 0:00:00.871 --> 0:00:04.521 Music 0:00:04.805 --> 0:00:05.766 When Bjorn was born, 0:00:05.840 --> 0:00:07.235 I held him and I promised him 0:00:07.306 --> 0:00:09.718 that his life was going to be extraordinary. 0:00:09.836 --> 0:00:13.928 I think probably as an infant I imagined this. 0:00:14.003 --> 0:00:17.336 Her dream was for him to live in his own place. 0:00:17.410 --> 0:00:19.448 And so she had this vision of 0:00:19.523 --> 0:00:20.928 her son living with friends, 0:00:21.005 --> 0:00:22.151 not in a group home living with 0:00:22.220 --> 0:00:23.908 people that he didn´t know. 0:00:23.983 --> 0:00:26.650 As I recall, I introduced the idea was skiing 0:00:26.726 --> 0:00:28.066 in the lodge and, you know, 0:00:28.136 --> 0:00:29.450 We´re thinking of doing this. 0:00:29.521 --> 0:00:31.466 What do you think? 0:00:31.876 --> 0:00:38.203 And the other family said, Yeah, yeah. That´s good. 0:00:38.273 --> 0:00:40.348 So she just took a leap of faith 0:00:40.420 --> 0:00:43.366 and built the house and got the funding 0:00:43.445 --> 0:00:46.065 and had very high expectations about 0:00:46.145 --> 0:00:48.616 the people that she hired for her son 0:00:48.691 --> 0:00:51.050 and the life that her son was going to live. 0:00:51.213 --> 0:00:54.065 They have 24/7 staffing, which they must. 0:00:54.141 --> 0:00:56.200 The staff is amazing, 0:00:56.275 --> 0:00:58.866 and we have very high expectations of them. 0:00:58.936 --> 0:01:01.233 And we love them unconditionally 0:01:01.306 --> 0:01:04.900 and want to make their job the best job of all. 0:01:04.970 --> 0:01:09.093 There was a lot of thought and consideration taken in 0:01:09.165 --> 0:01:12.965 who is going to be in here and how they´ll interact together. 0:01:13.040 --> 0:01:15.986 Tom is definitely the patriarch of the family, 0:01:16.060 --> 0:01:19.380 so he kinds of makes sure things are done. 0:01:19.460 --> 0:01:21.205 Most of the times he´s pretty wrapped up 0:01:21.276 --> 0:01:22.123 in what he does. 0:01:22.195 --> 0:01:24.481 But then you can see as soon as something goes wrong 0:01:24.556 --> 0:01:27.036 or as soon as someone´s not feeling well, things like that, 0:01:27.108 --> 0:01:29.770 he just comes in and kind of hovers and takes care. 0:01:29.836 --> 0:01:33.341 And just has that caring, nurturing attitude. 0:01:33.415 --> 0:01:35.575 Most people downstairs have a really joyful, 0:01:35.646 --> 0:01:39.500 really happy, outgoing, but not necessarily caregivers. 0:01:39.575 --> 0:01:40.400 And Tom really is. 0:01:40.471 --> 0:01:42.800 So that´s something really unique to him that I´ve seen. 0:01:42.871 --> 0:01:46.400 Dan is the really just easygoing guy 0:01:46.471 --> 0:01:48.713 who wants everybody to be happy. 0:01:48.783 --> 0:01:50.051 He´s always been a runner. 0:01:50.121 --> 0:01:51.433 Yeah, he loves to run. 0:01:51.503 --> 0:01:54.043 He runs the 5K, 0:01:54.271 --> 0:01:57.561 the last time at Mackinaw Island without stopping. 0:01:57.671 --> 0:01:59.120 Well, he was trying to catch Brenda. 0:01:59.206 --> 0:02:01.718 I think he lost like 75 pounds 0:02:01.875 --> 0:02:03.891 and started joining races, 0:02:04.006 --> 0:02:06.098 and the first race he did was on Mackinaw Island. 0:02:06.171 --> 0:02:07.961 It was 5.7 miles. 0:02:08.073 --> 0:02:09.533 He did it because I was doing it, 0:02:09.606 --> 0:02:11.760 and I made it pretty clear that I was going 0:02:11.835 --> 0:02:13.800 to be competitive, and that when it started, 0:02:13.873 --> 0:02:15.400 I was going to run. 0:02:15.475 --> 0:02:17.988 And there was a staff there to run with Dan 0:02:18.060 --> 0:02:20.428 just to make sure that he knew the way. 0:02:20.508 --> 0:02:22.496 And, actually, he ran so fast, she couldn´t keep up. 0:02:22.643 --> 0:02:25.266 Oh, you know. It´ll probably be an hour or two before 0:02:25.341 --> 0:02:27.533 Danny gets here, so we´re just going to like 0:02:27.606 --> 0:02:29.626 go in and maybe get a cup of coffee. 0:02:29.701 --> 0:02:32.366 All of a sudden, here comes Danny and we´re like, 0:02:32.445 --> 0:02:35.790 Oh, my gosh. And, oh, he was so proud. 0:02:35.863 --> 0:02:38.446 Bjorn is just so incredibly cool. 0:02:38.520 --> 0:02:40.566 He´s kind of off and does his own thing 0:02:40.640 --> 0:02:43.200 and just kind of checks in on the guys here and there. 0:02:43.275 --> 0:02:44.566 He doesn´t have the same interests. 0:02:44.638 --> 0:02:47.215 Dan and Tom´s interests are very similar. 0:02:47.308 --> 0:02:51.038 And Bjorn is more interested in surfing the web. 0:02:51.208 --> 0:02:52.638 He´s interested in physics. 0:02:52.705 --> 0:02:54.600 He loves anything in the sky. 0:02:54.678 --> 0:02:57.235 You know, we do a lot of looking at different stars and 0:02:57.310 --> 0:02:59.108 planets and what´s going to come into view. 0:02:59.175 --> 0:03:00.331 And he loves music 0:03:00.406 --> 0:03:03.968 When we first started surfing the web, 0:03:04.038 --> 0:03:06.700 I think he was in high school in Charlevoix, 0:03:06.768 --> 0:03:09.456 and he would go to the computer lab, 0:03:09.580 --> 0:03:12.956 and he would stayed glued to the web 0:03:13.030 --> 0:03:15.031 as long as anyone would work it for him. 0:03:15.108 --> 0:03:17.616 Whether it was art or music or 0:03:17.693 --> 0:03:19.525 checking out Jackson Hole, Wyoming 0:03:19.593 --> 0:03:20.730 where his sister lived. 0:03:20.801 --> 0:03:23.635 He´ll have these days where he´s just so focused. 0:03:23.703 --> 0:03:24.676 It´s so clear. 0:03:24.775 --> 0:03:26.116 And you´ll look at a magazine with him. 0:03:26.203 --> 0:03:28.068 And doesn´t know how to read necessarily, 0:03:28.140 --> 0:03:30.476 but he could kind of get what each page is. 0:03:30.550 --> 0:03:31.300 And it´s funny. 0:03:31.376 --> 0:03:33.233 He´ll flip to a page and you´ll start to flip to 0:03:33.308 --> 0:03:35.276 another one because he´s not really paying attention, 0:03:35.355 --> 0:03:37.311 and all of a sudden he´ll put his out and he´ll just stop it. 0:03:37.373 --> 0:03:39.465 So to see him have his own interaction 0:03:39.541 --> 0:03:41.326 on his world is a really big thing. 0:03:41.405 --> 0:03:43.406 Bjorn is truly making choices 0:03:43.428 --> 0:03:45.400 when he´s taking me places. 0:03:45.476 --> 0:03:48.180 He´s always taking me somewhere and 0:03:48.253 --> 0:03:51.188 showing me things that I haven´t taken the time to notice. 0:03:51.260 --> 0:03:54.085 And that´s probably why I look so happy 0:03:54.175 --> 0:03:55.300 when I´m following him around. 0:03:55.375 --> 0:03:58.865 North Country Critters started because of Dan´s mom, 0:03:58.936 --> 0:04:01.566 who is a volunteer at AC Paws. 0:04:01.843 --> 0:04:03.066 She was holding a bake sale 0:04:03.140 --> 0:04:04.870 and asked us if we would bake something 0:04:04.963 --> 0:04:06.496 in support of the sale. 0:04:06.673 --> 0:04:08.933 And when I sat down with Dan and Tom, 0:04:09.003 --> 0:04:11.000 they said, “It´s for the dogs”. 0:04:11.070 --> 0:04:12.870 “We´re going to bake dog treats.” 0:04:12.973 --> 0:04:15.416 And many people that bought them 0:04:15.491 --> 0:04:17.966 came up to me and said, “We need some more”. 0:04:18.045 --> 0:04:20.768 Their first craft show was in Elk Rapids. 0:04:20.845 --> 0:04:22.633 People were kind of walking by and looking, 0:04:22.708 --> 0:04:23.733 but they´d keep going. 0:04:23.805 --> 0:04:26.966 And so this woman walks by and kind of glances over 0:04:27.043 --> 0:04:28.666 and looks at the boys but she kept going. 0:04:28.741 --> 0:04:29.668 And Danny goes, 0:04:29.738 --> 0:04:32.733 “Whoops, there goes my favorite customer”. 0:04:33.075 --> 0:04:35.000 And of course she had to turn around and come back 0:04:35.076 --> 0:04:37.750 after he said that, and she bought treats. 0:04:37.823 --> 0:04:39.133 So now it´s like 0:04:39.206 --> 0:04:42.305 There´s my favorite customer. 0:04:42.473 --> 0:04:44.031 He´s a real salesman. 0:04:44.106 --> 0:04:47.366 So the guys, you know, basically mix and measure 0:04:47.440 --> 0:04:49.538 and roll out the treats. 0:04:49.740 --> 0:04:52.051 We have to send each treat in for analysis 0:04:52.125 --> 0:04:53.410 when we first develop it. 0:04:53.545 --> 0:04:54.941 And we have to be licensed 0:04:55.015 --> 0:04:57.860 by the state of Michigan to do this, as well. 0:04:57.940 --> 0:04:59.800 It´s starting to be more profitable 0:04:59.873 --> 0:05:01.710 that they can take bigger trips. 0:05:01.838 --> 0:05:04.466 They´ve had the opportunity to be part of their community. 0:05:04.540 --> 0:05:06.618 They attend church where they have friends. 0:05:06.691 --> 0:05:09.700 Have a business that they meet people. 0:05:09.773 --> 0:05:12.138 They grocery shop in their local store. 0:05:12.215 --> 0:05:13.733 They know everybody there. 0:05:13.805 --> 0:05:15.650 They have a rich, full life. 0:05:15.718 --> 0:05:17.135 The guys don´t have to do 0:05:17.206 --> 0:05:19.911 every single solitary thing together. 0:05:20.006 --> 0:05:21.440 They have their separate lives 0:05:21.513 --> 0:05:24.243 where they can go off and do different things 0:05:24.403 --> 0:05:25.933 and have different choices. 0:05:26.008 --> 0:05:27.541 Sometimes all three of them will 0:05:27.611 --> 0:05:29.001 go in a different direction. 0:05:29.140 --> 0:05:31.700 I feel, as Louise does, 0:05:31.770 --> 0:05:34.298 that their vocabularies have increased. 0:05:34.538 --> 0:05:36.390 They are more independent. 0:05:36.470 --> 0:05:38.466 Self-determination is our motto. 0:05:38.975 --> 0:05:42.368 I´m just in it for all kids to have amazing lives. 0:05:42.440 --> 0:05:45.696 And I truly do believe that it takes a village 0:05:45.790 --> 0:05:47.600 And I truly do believe that it takes a village 0:05:47.675 --> 0:05:49.236 It is just such a natural thing. 0:05:49.306 --> 0:05:51.995 You grow up, you get older, you get a job. 0:05:52.138 --> 0:05:54.165 And I just wish that could happen 0:05:54.240 --> 0:05:56.333 for people of all abilities. 0:05:56.408 --> 0:05:59.303 That that´s just the natural rhythm of your life. 0:05:59.380 --> 0:06:01.543 You grow up, you get a job, 0:06:01.615 --> 0:06:03.933 you move out, you get a place of your own. 0:06:04.036 --> 0:06:05.488 It can happen. 0:06:05.640 --> 0:06:34.123 Music